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Needs and Neediness

There are needs . . . and there is neediness. Everyone needs connection with others. But when unmet childhood needs spill into adult relating, neediness arises. It has a different flavor than adult need fulfillment. To me it feels like excessive clinginess to the...
Embodied Love vs. New Age Love

Embodied Love vs. New Age Love

Because our wounds birth the rest of our brilliance, and because we effect this healing somatically, embodied love is both dark and light. Emotional shadow work to become more compassionate and loving contrasts with superficial, new-age love, which we know is paper-thin and evaporates when the going gets even a little tougher.

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The Somatic Pivot

The Somatic Pivot

“A common notion is that spiritual practice is at odds with emotional work. It certainly can be, but it doesn’t have to be.”

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